i’m the guy, she has no clue...
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Nov 21, 2025 5:31 pm
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Nov 22, 2025 12:26 am
Start by fisting her first. Once she’s fully into it, you can playfully suggest that fairness goes both ways and you’d love to feel the same, with a cheeky grin.
let me know how it goes. 🤓
Nov 23, 2025 4:09 pm
hey ♡
i was terrified when my boyfriend asked the same thing. i felt weird, guilty, scared i’d hurt him or look stupid.
i was terrified when my boyfriend asked the same thing. i felt weird, guilty, scared i’d hurt him or look stupid.
But he just held me and said “this is me trusting you with the most vulnerable part of me”. that changed everything. it wasn’t dirty or scary anymore; it was intimate.
The first time my hand slid in and he looked at me with tears in his eyes and whispered “i feel so safe with you”… i cried too. it’s the closest i’ve ever felt to anyone.
Tell her it’s not about the act. it’s about letting her hold your whole trust in her palm. she’ll get it. promise ♡
