Open minded married with no secrets,I'm not looking for a wife I do understand that there is a lot of men who is a jealous box ? ?. Who don't accept women using toys or have sex some other way . But at the same time there is a lot of good men open minded. My opinion is that the best orgasms out of all is reserved by all type of anal. If you have a good game plan ,good partner, and good lubricant. (Do not use silicone) water based no flavor or you will never find out how sweet that rose is. ?.